So, a very common question I am asked is when should I send my save the dates and invitations. There isn’t a right or wrong answer to this really but there are better and worse times. Save the Dates Save the dates can realistically be sent up to a year in advance of your wedding day. When you send them and if you send them will depend on a number of factors such as if you’re having a wedding that people will need to travel to, or a weekday wedding where people will need time