I bet if you’re planning a wedding right now you’ll have considered most or all of these things, you start with one question which begins to spiral out of control – Do we have a religious or civil ceremony? How do we approach the legalities of a marriage? What venue can do civil ceremonies and which can accommodate our numbers? We’ve found the ideal place but it’s just too far from home. We have so many friends how do we pick who can come? But we really want everyone there so